Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme
Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme
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Overview
- Release Year: 2021
- Perfumer: Calice Becker
- Olfactory Family: Amber Floral
- Concept: "Love, Don’t Be Shy Extreme" is a more refined and floral-focused reinterpretation of the original "Love, Don’t Be Shy", which is famous for its unapologetically sweet gourmand profile. The "Extreme" version softens the sweetness, enhancing the floral dimension with an overdose of rose.
Key Notes
- Top Notes: Neroli, Bergamot
- Heart Notes: Bulgarian Rose, Orange Blossom, Marshmallow
- Base Notes: Vanilla, Musk, Amber
Fragrance Breakdown
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Opening:
- The fragrance begins with a bright, slightly citrusy neroli note, which pairs beautifully with the bergamot to create a fresh, sparkling introduction.
- This fresh opening immediately sets it apart from the original, which leans more into its sweet, gourmand nature from the start.
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Heart:
- The heart is where "Extreme" truly shines. Bulgarian rose takes center stage, bringing a lush, velvety richness that feels opulent and romantic.
- The orange blossom, a signature note from the original, adds a creamy, slightly sweet floral backdrop, blending harmoniously with the rose.
- Marshmallow provides a soft, fluffy sweetness that nods to the gourmand DNA of the original but feels more restrained and elegant here.
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Dry Down:
- As it dries down, the marshmallow sweetness melts into a warm base of vanilla and musk. This phase is cozy, creamy, and slightly powdery.
- The amber adds depth and warmth without being overpowering, while the musk enhances the skin-like intimacy.
Performance
- Longevity: Long-lasting, easily 8-10 hours on the skin.
- Projection: Moderate to strong in the first few hours, then settles closer to the skin.
- Sillage: Noticeable but not overwhelming; it leaves a trail that is both sweet and floral.
Occasion
- Best for: Romantic evenings, special occasions, or when you want to feel luxurious and indulgent.
- Season: Ideal for cooler weather or temperate climates. Its richness and sweetness can feel cloying in high heat.
Personality
"Love, Don’t Be Shy Extreme" exudes confidence, romance, and sophistication. It feels like an evolution of the original, perfect for someone who loves sweetness but craves a more mature, floral-forward composition.
Pros
- A more refined and balanced alternative to the original.
- The rose and orange blossom create a luxurious floral profile.
- Long-lasting with excellent performance.
Cons
- The sweetness, though toned down, may still be too much for those who prefer fresher fragrances.
- The "Extreme" tag might lead some to expect a bolder scent, but this version is more about elegance than intensity.
Comparison
If you enjoy "Love, Don’t Be Shy Extreme", you might also like:
- Maison Francis Kurkdjian - À La Rose: For a bright, rose-forward floral.
- Parfums de Marly - Delina: For another luxurious and floral-centric fragrance.
- By Kilian - Love, Don’t Be Shy: For a sweeter, more gourmand-heavy take on the DNA.
Overall Rating
- Scent: 9/10 - Beautifully balanced between gourmand sweetness and floral richness.
- Performance: 8.5/10 - Great longevity with moderate projection.
- Versatility: 7/10 - Best suited for specific occasions rather than daily wear.
- Value: 8/10 - Justifiable for fans of Kilian's gourmand-floral aesthetic.
"Love, Don’t Be Shy Extreme" is a sophisticated, romantic fragrance that enhances the floral elegance of the original while retaining the comforting gourmand sweetness Kilian fans adore. It’s perfect for someone who appreciates rich, luxurious compositions with a more nuanced approach to sweetness.
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